Spinning and My Girlfriend

About three weeks ago I spun fire for two of my friend Brittnay's friends. Brittnay, Corey, and Kyle all dance and act so when Brittnay told them I spun they were interested not just because spinning is so damn cool Sphism/winksmiley but because being performers themselves they wanted to see what it was like. I tend to notice people who don't know know what spinning is usually are kinda skeptic about what its gonna look like. I spun for them and they were really impressed, dissolving all skepticism. Corey especially. She kept asking me about spinning like where I learned and how I found out about it. We ended up talking all night afterwards at a party. Now we are dating and it's really great. I probably never would have met her if i didn't spin. I'm even teaching her how to spin. Which is great cause now i don't have to be a lone spinner anymore. I'm going to have to have her set up a spherculism account soon. Teaching is also helping me improve alot also. In the past week I have figured out a whole bunch of moves like utl weave, a buttload of new throws, btb hyperloops, and bringing back and incorporating alot of neglected basics like split-time giant butterfly-overhead butterfly combos mixed up with impossible weaves. Those are yummy. Man I love spinning so much. It's brightened my life in so many ways. :36

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Sphism/gigglesmiley

That's wonderful, Rovo!! I'm so happy for you. So I guess school is going well then, yes? Sphism/winksmiley

Bring her onboard ... we (or at least *I* - don't want to speak for everyone here) promise not to bite.

Send me a fire pic soon, OK??? I want to be sure those wicks are treating you well.

Oh yeah - and isn't teaching so much harder than learning, even?? But it does teach you to think about all the moves you do in different ways to be able to tell others ... and you get better at it yourself. This is the best thing about spinning, I think ... our skills grow geometrically as we meet others and teach others about our art.

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exes and ohs,
Saucy

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our skills grow geometrically as we meet others and teach others about our art.

exactly.... I love the way you put that

Oh and I might going to the city in the next few months and even if it's snowing were going to have to go for a spin. Even if it is the flames will keep us warm.

Absolutely!! Whenever you are headed into NYC, look me up (this goes for all the spherculists!!) and we'll head out to some of my favorite NYC-stylee spinning spots. I can promise you the most beautiful NYC skyline, IMHO, provided the evening is clear. And against that backdrop - fire spinning! What's more beautiful than that??

I'm still bummed that we didn't get to go to the Waterfront when adop was here. Sphism/sadsmiley But we did spin socks together, at least!

Rah, well done Sphism/smilesmiley

Whilst I met my current g/f a long time before we went out, apparently one of the things that most changed her opinion from friend to "I want to go out with you" was my trying to teach her "how to pull via the medium of poi" one drunken summer afternoon in the park Sphism/gigglesmiley

well see my g/f got me to spin... one day she was in the bathroom shaving and bathing and I decided to pick up these glowsticks she had been spinning forever.. I figured.. I don't dance, so why not do something.. got the bf windmill, weave, and cork by the time she came out and was fluid between them.. she kept spinning for a few more months and then sort of dropped off... because well.. she can't handle being hit by them... though she does still pcik them up once in a blue moon.. but for now shes the main office of 'women of poiple' and helps young women come to terms with the fact that they do not exist while we spin poi... (not joking.. I'm serious.. like one of my friends girl got up and walked off at a party and stood behind this pole and NOONE saw her leave, because we were either spinning or watching someone spin.. OUCH)

Yeah, fire spinning is definitely a chick magnite... but I don't think you're supposed to then ignore them. I think I found a good balance at Burning Man this year of time with poi and time with my girlfriend. The only exception might be when Saucy distracted me with poi when I was supposed to be getting the car and my girlfriend was cleaning out the dusty tent... oops!

I swear.... the way some chicks just HAVE to have their guys' spotlight on them the whole time... imo, they aren't worth the guys time.

Cheers Rovo!

actually...

this link takes you to a vid clip... count the number of times the people in the whtie shirts pass the basketball between each other... (there are two teams.. 3 white shirt and 3 black shirt.. each has a ball.. justcount the numebr of times the white ones pass..
click here

done?

ok now go back and watch it again.. without counting or paying attention to anything...

the point is that attention is a selective process.. and things can be right in front of your face and you not notice them.. much less the example where destiny walked off, and we didnt notice.... its not a matter of not being important enough..

8O

I can take my clothes off while spinning. Sphism/gigglesmiley really I can.
Not sure if any girl would find that attractive though.

ok - so you brought it up, achulo ... you now must elaborate ...

When did you realize your poi spinning/strip tease abilities??

Funny you mention it, I won a poi spinning strip tease at ejc. I was the only one who didn't take my trousers off cos my shoes have lots of buckles that take for ever to undo.

I think the thing that clinched it was the 1 handed wibbling whilst taking my t-shirt off Sphism/gigglesmiley then spinning my t-shirt in 1 hand and 2 poi in the other

Anyway, nice 1 rovo, can't wait to virtually meet your new lady. Good work on all the new moves you've been learning Sphism/winksmiley

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Sphism/gigglesmiley nice one Rovo! my girlfriends been taking more of an interest in spinning lately after being initially indifferent to it. she seems to have picked up most of the basics now but i'm looking forward to when she gets a bit better so we can properly interact through it...
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Well I was spinning in my room and my friend and his girlfriend were on my bed watching. I got bored so I decided "hey lets see If I can drop my pants while spinning" So I got into a one handed butterfly, and proceeded to drop my pants while spinning. Everything was fine until I started trying BTL stuff with the crotch of my pants at about my knees. It just evolved from there.
I'm not sure if I'd do this one on webcam for anyone. Sphism/gigglesmiley

hey rovo,

i like your story very much, keep on teaching, its the best present you can make for her.
i learned spinning since 1 year ago from my boyfriend and now he left me. its really sad but, i will never give up spinning (and never give up loving him), because teaching me spinning poi was the best present i ever got.

My teaching has paid off. On Saturday night my girlfriend won talent in the Miss Fulton County Pageant which is a prelim for Miss New York State. Anyway she spun poi for her talent and wowed the audience. They were cheering throughout. Everyone loved it. She wore a blue sequin costume and spun green beaming balls. She spun to a portion of the Phish song Cars Trucks Buses. She did great and I am so proud of her. She ended up getting 600 dollars in scholarships for Miss Congeniality and talent. I don't really like these things but you have to support the oines you care about. Plus it is nice having tons of people tellin you how hot your girlfriend is and that she was the prettiest girl in the pageant. Sphism/winksmiley Since she did so well shes going to enter a coupole of other pageants and hopefully we can get a video of her spinning at one of those to put online.

Corey I am so proud of you keep up the good work.

Thats awesome man, you must be a good teacher =D

Kudos to your girl, great goin =D

Jim

Last night Corey (my sweetheart) won a preliminary pageant for Miss New York State! She ended up getting a thousand dollars in scholarships and a bunch of miscellaneous prizes. Hopefully at the Miss New York State pageant she'll be allowed to spin fire. Just thought I would add this lil follow up on her. Me very proud Sphism/gigglesmiley

Blimey- Sounds like thats all going very nicely then Sphism/smilesmiley

Congrats dude, good to hear from you Sphism/smilesmiley

Chutney

Nice one! Sphism/gigglesmiley

Wow, that's great!

Congrats and best of luck for the next one. Sphism/gigglesmiley

nice...

what i've found about girls who dig the dancing and want to learn... they tend to want to learn for you! i.e. in they want to do it so they have something else to do with you! I mean face it, we tend to be really engrosed by what we do, particularly when it comes to fire! well tht's how it iz around here.

and i've know a couple of girls who have started learning because their boyfriends do it and it gives them more time with you!

i never push a girlfriend to learn, coz a person must want to do it for themselves, not for sum1 else, not for ego, or anything like tht! It must be for yourself!

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Teaching is a great way to improve your own dancing, cos it forces you to go back to the basics, to things tht you hardly even remember, the simplest of the simplest. You repeate all the stuff that you never do any more! Never forget that all the moves you learn can be traced back to those first simple moves!

Oh I think maybe at first she wanted to learn to spin with me but she'll be nipping at my heels soon in terms of moves learnt. Last night we had a breakthrough. I taught her btb waistwraps, btb weave, the basic hyperloop, a bunch of same time crap,(which I just became really interested in), and a bunch of other stuff. One day hse'll make me look silly spinning next to her since she has such a heavy dance background. But i'm proud of her so it really doesn't matter. I know she really enjoys it herself and it gives us something to do together. Even though I'm a complete poi-addict and freaking practially dream about it twice a week.

go boy go!

Corey competed in the Miss New York State pageant the weekend of June 30th and did pretty good for her first state pageant. Anyway there is a ok picture of her spinning for her talent (non-fire of course). She's come a long way in the 10 months shes been spinning. Anyway heres the link...

http://missnyweb.org/05compmv.htm

haha awesome! go her!!

Rovo you have one stunning girlfriend Sphism/smilesmiley Congrats to her on her success Sphism/smilesmiley (and to you on your Sphism/winksmiley)

Haha yeah shes great beautiful and cool is a hard combination to find.